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I took my kids to the National Civil Rights Museum at the Lorraine Motel in Memphis. They asked all the right questions.
It’s African American family vacation time. Just a few years ago, my kids and I began an annual tradition of going to visit family in Alabama and Georgia. This yr, I added an academic element to the trip. In the middle of our week in the South, we drove three hours from my parents’ house in northern Alabama to Memphis to visit National Civil Rights Museum (NCRM) at the Lorraine Motel where Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. was assassinated.
In January 2019, I visited the Lorraine Motel for the first time. I had never been to Memphis before and there was no way I might be in Memphis and never visit the museum to see the place where Dr. King was killed. This is by far the most emotional museum experience I have ever had. I was an emotional wreck by the time I finished the tour and had to loosen up on a bench outside the hotel. I was so offended and so hurt, which was surprising because there was nothing about the hotel that I didn’t already know or was not aware of. Yet on this trip, preparing to see his last hotel room and the place where “they” killed Dr. King made me so restless that the emotions spilled out.
I was curious to see how I would feel about this second museum visit and the way my children would react to it. Three of my 4 children are museum-going age; their schools organize field trips to various museums in Washington, D.C. My children have been to the Smithsonian’s National Museum of African American History and Culture, but I think the last time they were there they were too young to really understand and process what happened there. My daughter is older (15), so she has a distinct perspective from the history courses she has taken, but my younger boys are at the point where they’re taking black history programs and learning that Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. is dead. The thing is, my children have some understanding of history, but there may be nothing like being bombarded with it.
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I can say that my second time at NCRM was less emotional—probably because I knew what to expect—but additionally because I tried to see the exhibits through my children’s eyes. It wasn’t long before considered one of my children began asking the questions that make American history sound so silly.
We went right into a room where there was a Ku Klux Klan robe and hood, and my son asked me what it was. In a room filled with people, I explained very loudly that there was a bunch of racist white individuals who hated him and didn’t think he should have the opportunity to play along with his schoolmates or the football team, and in some cases killed black people for doing nothing greater than existing. And then the questions of “why” began to come up. One of my children began reading every thing he saw on the wall. He wanted to understand the way it made sense and kept asking me, “Dad, why would someone do that?”
A girl got here up to me and said, “Kids definitely ask the right questions, right?”
Yes, they do. At every display, from the explanation of the Montgomery bus boycott to the Freedom Riders’ bombed bus exhibit, my kids tried to understand why anyone would allow this to occur and why anyone would want to stop kids from playing together. There was a specific exhibit that talked about schools with letters from parents who didn’t want their kids to go to school with black kids, and that basically interested and confused considered one of my kids.
That’s when I began to worry, because while they could not fully understand the extent of American racism in the 1900s, they’re aware of the legacy of Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. One day, considered one of my children, an 8-year-old, burst into tears in our house because Dr. King had been killed. He was particularly keen to see the place where Dr. King had been killed. That part upset me because I knew how I felt as an adult, but as a baby whose emotions were already shattered, I was apprehensive about how he would take it.
He looked around the stage, hugged me, and stared out at the balcony. He told me he wanted to see the place where the shooter was, however it was closed for renovation. My kids asked all the questions I wanted them to ask, they usually all began with “Why?” and truthfully, I did not have a good answer to any of their questions. I’ve had questions like that myself over the years. But I was happy with them for recognizing and expressing their concerns, asking about history, and appreciating it. My kids understand that, and I’m comfortable and happy with that.
When we left, they asked us to come back, and once they’re older, we’ll come back. For now, I can share with them a component of American history which means a lot to me, and that is what family vacations are all about.
The kids might be high-quality.
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HBCU GO, an Allen Media Group Company, Announces Partnership with P&G
HBCU GO, an Allen Media Group company and leading media provider to the nation’s 107 Historically Black Colleges and Universities (HBCUs), and Procter & Gamble are joining forces to rejoice HBCU culture.
The partnership features a industrial campaign titled “THIS IS HOW WE HBCYOU” that may run through the 2024 football season. The partnership also includes the “2024 HBCU GO Sports Pre-Game Live Kick-Off Show,” the first-ever HBCU GO live on-campus show leading as much as the most important games of the season, including the Southern Heritage Classic on Saturday between Tennessee State and Arkansas Pine Bluff.
Eric Austin, Vice President of Global Marketing and Media Innovation at Procter & Gamble, said, “We strive to meet the unique needs of all consumers. Together with HBCU GO Allen Media Group, we are able to authentically connect and empower Black consumers—in their everyday lives, through great brand innovation at the right cultural moments.”
P&G’s #HowWeHBCYOU ad campaign, powered by AMG, highlights the importance of supporting HBCUs and their students to support their success and continued growth.
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The “2024 HBCU GO Sports Pre-Game Live Kick-Off Show,” hosted by Jasmine McKoy, former Carolina Panthers defensive end Tre Boston and HBCU Gameday’s Tolly Carr, will give fans of the 4 major HBCU football conferences live access to all of the interviews and game strategy, in addition to a taste of HBCU culture.
In addition to the Southern Classic on Saturday, the event schedule includes:
Oct. 12: Bethune Cookman vs. Alabama A&M, homecoming game;
Oct. 19: Arkansas Pine Bluff vs. Grambling State, return game;
Oct. 26: Jackson State vs. Bethune Cookman, homecoming game;
November 9: Mississippi Valley vs. Jackson State.
For more details about HBCU GO, visit HBCUGO.TV.
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Pioneering author and publisher Tina McElroy Ansa dies at age 74
Tina McElroy Ansa, an acclaimed author, journalist, and pioneer whose vivid narrative captured the sweetness, complexity, and resilience of life within the black South, has joined her ancestors.
On September 10, 2024, the author died at the age of 74 in her home on the Georgia coast. After her unexpected death, McElroy Ansa’s good friend Wanda Lloyd, whom she met during her freshman 12 months at Spelman College, wrote Facebook post announcing the news.
“It is with immeasurable sadness and a broken heart that I share the news of the death of Tina McElroy Ansa, my sister-friend since we were paired as roommates our freshman year at Spelman College. I am sharing this on behalf of Tina’s family,” the post reads. “Tina was an award-winning novelist, journalist, writer-doula, advocate for a huge number of her “good little students,” founding father of Sea Island Writers Retreat, publisher of DownSouth Press, storyteller, public speaker, podcaster, editor, and avid gardener. She was an advocate for her adopted community of St. Simons Island, Georgia, and loved her hometown of Macon, Georgia.”
Born in Macon, Georgia, in 1949, McElroy Ansa was the youngest of 5 children of Walter J. and Nellie McElroy. In 1971, she and Lloyd graduated with a level in English from an all-women’s HBCU. She began her storytelling profession as an editor at The Atlanta Constitution, where she became the primary black woman to affix the editorial staff of the publication. After moving from editor to reporter to features editor, McElroy Ansa took a break from journalism to put in writing her first novel, “Baby of the Family.”
Inspired by the stories and experiences she heard on her porch growing up, McElroy Ansa’s writing wove generations of family, spirit, and tradition into narratives that spoke on to the essence of the Black Southern experience. Through her sharp prose and deep exploration of family, culture, and community, she helped shape a brand new narrative for Black women in fiction.
“She was one of the women writing African-American literature in the 1980s and 1990s,” Lloyd said. Atlanta Journal-Constitution.
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After her debut novel won the New York Times Notable Book of the Year award in 1989, McElroy Ansa wrote Ugly Ways, The Hand I Fan With, You Know Better, and Taking After Mudear: A (*74*). In addition to her own writing, the veteran journalist-turned-author was captivated with supporting other black writers. In 2007, she founded DownSouth Press Publishing House to publish and promote “African American literature that will enrich, enlighten, and edify the world.”
Similarly, in 2004, McElroy Ansa organized the Sea Island Writers Retreat, an annual event designed to assist emerging and established writers improve their skills in writing fiction, nonfiction, memoir, and editing.
In addition to being a author, publisher and mentor, McElroy Ansa was also a wife. In 1979, she married cinematographer Jonée Ansa, with whom she lived until his death in 2020. Before her death, McElroy Ansa was reportedly working on her sixth novel, a nonfiction book titled “Secrets of a Bogart Queen” and an October film festival celebrating the a hundredth anniversary of the Harrington School, the primary school for African-American children in St. Simons, Georgia.
According to Lloyd McElroy, Ansa “was a leader in the writing community and a friend to more people than we can imagine.”
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Shannon Sharpe tries to clear the air after ‘intimate’ Instagram Live
It was an ungainly day at the Shay Shay Club.
Yesterday, NFL player turned TV personality Shannon Sharpe went viral after 1000’s of his Instagram followers overheard him having sex on Instagram Live. After unknowingly broadcasting the intimate moment on social media, Sharpe addressed the situation in “emergency” episode of his show “Nightcap” with Chad “Ochocinco” Johnson. Starting the episode on a light-weight note, Sharpe followed his usual intro, “I’m your favorite uncle,” with “at least I used to be your favorite uncle,” jokingly acknowledging what happened on social media.
“Of course I’m ashamed,” Sharpe said, his tone more serious. “(I’m) someone who is extremely, extremely private, and the fact that one of your most intimate details, the sound of it being heard by the whole world, makes me ashamed for many reasons.”
Acknowledging his responsibility as a public figure related to major brands like ESPN and as a father, Sharpe explained how disillusioned he was with himself for what had happened.
“Even when I’m behind closed doors, I still try to maintain a level of professionalism (decorum), even though I’m in the privacy of my own home and I’m very disappointed in myself, not because of the act — there are millions and billions of age-conscious people who participate in the acts. But for your most intimate details to be heard on an audio recording … I’ve let a lot of people down,” he added.
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Despite speculation on social media about the ordeal, Sharpe insisted that “it wasn’t a set up.” According to the “Nightcap” co-host, he threw his phone on the bed before engaging in the revealing actions, not even realizing that his phone had gone live to tell the tale Instagram. It wasn’t until his phone began lighting up with calls from friends that Sharpe realized something had happened.
“I’ve never been on IG Live; I’ve never been on IG Live, so I don’t know how it works,” he claimed, explaining how his friend Jamie Fritz was the one who reached out to him and told him what was occurring. “He said, ‘Uh Shannon, you’re on IG Live.’ (…) Now I’m starting to get nervous because you’re calling me and saying I’m on IG Live when I know I didn’t click on IG Live myself, and he said they can hear me. I said, ‘They can hear what I’m doing,’ (and he said), he said, ‘it sounds like you guys are having sex,'” Sharpe recounted. “Man, my heart just sank… it sank.”
When his social media team responded by turning off the live stream and posting a now-deleted Instagram post saying the star’s account had been compromised, Sharpe ultimately decided honesty was the best policy.
“I called my agency, I called ESPN (and) I said, ‘I just have to tell them the truth. My phone wasn’t hacked. It wasn’t a joke; I was a healthy, active man,'” he said.
While his co-hosts joked that the situation should put an end to any speculation about Sharpe’s sexual orientation, he himself stated that the worst aspect of the situation is the proven fact that his family and friends could have to answer for his actions.
“After it happened, I remembered everything my grandfather and grandmother had said. They said, ‘Boy, you’ve made a mess, now clean it up,'” he concluded.
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