A little unsolicited advice for Halle Bailey and DDG who are clearly still trying to navigate co-parenting

I do not follow the lives of any couples/non-couples I see on social media. If I do not know you, why should I understand how your relationship goes when I even have my very own to maintain? As such, I barely post my relationship on social media, except for the requisite posts on anniversaries and birthdays, in addition to cute memes where my wife and I tag one another to give interested parties insight into our antics.

Anyway, I’m on social media and reading gossip sites, so Halle Bailey and DDG (I still do not know what meaning) enter my consciousness from time to time. Part of that is that it looks as if A LOT of individuals have A LOT of things to say about their relationship. I remember at first people questioned how Halle Bailey, a young woman clearly seen in a really positive light, could possibly be mixed up and then get pregnant with DDG, who is or was a rapper that individuals didn’t see in the identical light, for whatever reason reason.

Well, after two years of dating, Bailey and DDG are splitting up, but they share a son named Halo. As young parents – Bailey is 24 and DDG is 27 – who are also famous and whose lives have captured the eye of a social media audience, I can imagine that coping with parenthood isn’t easy. While Bailey is more visible and more likely to be found on the streets near stores, DDG also appears within the news without Bailey.

Now, from the surface looking in, it looks as if Halo is an element of their story each as a pair and individually. Again, I do not pay much attention to their lives, but I do know what this kid looks like, and a whole lot of that is due to social media. That’s why I discovered it a little interesting that Bailey recently wasn’t completely satisfied about DDG taking Halo to a live stream with famous streamer Kai Cenat. During the livestream, Bailey contacted X and posted a deleted message (she initially deleted all of her social media accounts, but has since she topped up her X account again), which highlighted a couple of things: 1) She didn’t approve of Halo’s presence on the live stream; 2) She hasn’t been notified and is upset that Halo could also be seen by hundreds of thousands of individuals; and 3) She is his “mother and guardian” and wished she had been notified, especially when she was out of town.

Bailey has since posted on her X account (I swear, kids and this impulsive behavior) that she principally: she overreacted and just didn’t like checking out what her baby was doing with the remaining of the world. Basically DDG didn’t tell her before he showed up that he was going to be live streaming Kai Cenata and she saw her baby while everyone was doing it. I can imagine this could be a bit irritating, but hey, it is also a part of the co-parenting package and for some it is a hard lesson to learn.

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I’d like to offer some unsolicited advice and a couple of observations based on experience that I feel lots of us, famous and not, could learn something from. Having children with people and then breaking up isn’t easy. It’s hard enough to be on the identical page as a pair; It takes a LOT of labor to be on the identical page once you’re not a pair. Positive co-parenting takes much more work. Being famous can not help it in any respect. But above all, trust and understanding are vital; when you don’t trust the opposite parent, almost anything they do, even within the safest and most comfortable circumstances, will at all times feel comfortable.

DDG I’d tell him to let Bailey know if their son appears in all of the videos. It may not have to be, but talking to mom (or dad) in regards to the super public spaces your kids can be in, especially after they’re so young, will go a good distance to helping the opposite parent feel comfortable since it allows them to share any feelings they could have. even when they can not make any decision. Sharing knowledge openly and listening to one another makes communication easier as children grow old. Plus, it’s generally way to open up communication; nobody would suggest that it is best to share your baby’s every move, but when you resolve to share your baby with the world, a straightforward text cannot hurt. And this is applicable to each parents.

Bailey, I’d advise you to take a breath before posting. Implying that DDG shared her baby with hundreds of thousands of individuals while she did this three million MORE followers on IG (still deleted for now) than he does it he’s wild. Besides, suggesting that as a mother she’s concerned about protecting her son, as if the daddy may not be, isn’t something the whole Internet needs to be privy to, especially when you may take a moment to breathe and realize that perhaps it is not that deep. I appreciate that she publicly explained her problem since she got here for it publicly. I assume their phone conversation began tense but ended amicably. I hope that they may have the opportunity to raise their children together in space. Halo will profit from having two parents who love him and at all times have his best interests in mind; I even have no reason to imagine that this isn’t the case.

Signed, Uncle Panama.