‘Stop sending fools my way’: Man who invited woman to feed the homeless on first date gets scammed on social media

What gave the look of a well-thought-out date idea turned out to be a disaster when a woman took to social media to slam her potential date for inviting her to feed the homeless on their first date.

User X, Big Mimosa, took to the platform to express his frustrations. She says she mentioned to her fiancée that she feeds the homeless at the least once a month, but she didn’t expect what would occur next.

“He asked me out on a date to feed the homeless…………it was the first date…because I said I go to feed the homeless once a month,” she wrote. “So his brain told him this needs to be a date? If I even have to be single ceaselessly, I’m tremendous with that, but please stop accusing me of being silly.

The tweet posted on March 27 quickly sparked debate, leaving social media users torn.

Some say feeding the homeless is not a nasty thing to do, however it’s a nasty first date.

“Even though this gesture was thoughtful, it wasn’t the right thoughtful idea because in no way did he think it was a good idea since you already do it every month,” he said one user X.

“Not a proper first date,” one other person commented.

However, not everyone agrees with the Twitter user and lots of people say that Big Mimosa’s date dodged a bullet.

“That says less about you than it does about him,” someone replied.

“Say hello to the guy, that’s a great first date,” replied user X. “When we finish volunteering, let’s go out and eat something to end the night. What’s the problem with that? I’m sure it’s all of you who have the problem… exhausting game!”

“A person who includes your hobbies/interests on the first date is crazy, selfless and rare; You just didn’t like him enough and that is okay.” suggested one other commentator.

Several people said that a woman should take the opportunity to have an honest conversation along with her potential partner and suggested how to do that.

“Thanks for the date, but I prefer more traditional dates,” user X suggested. “Let’s keep it going, but let’s schedule it between the two of us. I appreciate the concern.”

When it comes to dating that requires volunteering, even Reddit users have expressed their opinions. In the subreddit r/AskKobietymost ladies say that volunteering together is a terrific third or fourth date if agreed upon prematurely.

That said, volunteering along with your partner has some advantages since it helps strengthen your bond. Pew Research Center found that about two out of three married couples imagine that common interests are essential to a successful marriage.

‘Stop sending fools my way’: Man who invited woman to feed the homeless on first date gets scammed on social media