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Minister sparks outrage with shocking ‘No Diddy’ comment during explosive sermon on premarital sex
Minister Robert Edwards is gaining popularity not due to his inspiring words. Oakwood University’s vice chairman’s mention of accused sex trafficker Sean “Diddy” Combs while addressing the university’s student body has caused a stir online.
On October 3, Edwards delivered a Diddy-inspired message about abstinence until marriage during a chapel service at his alma mater in Huntsville, Alabama. The program was broadcast live on YouTube.
At in regards to the 1:22:00 minute mark within the video, Edwards says, “Talking to the Oakwood Live students straight away, I do know you are attempting to make a call. Even in case you’re here, you may must say ‘no, Diddy’ to an Oakwood student.”
The Seventh-day Adventist leader’s advice to avoid premarital sex was met with applause from the group. He then mentioned that on the age of 19, he promised God to stay celibate until marriage.
“I had to say ‘no, Diddy.’ The first time I had sex was the night of my wedding. No, let me share something with you. I also told the Lord, “I won’t fluff it up prefer it was a pillow.” I do not squeeze the Charmin tissue.
Edwards is married to highschool administrator Dr. Denise Henderson Edwards. They each have two adult daughters and three grandchildren.
The phrase “no Diddy” became a meme in late 2023 and early 2024, after several lawsuits accusing the Bad Boy Entertainment founding father of sexual misconduct and physical violence became public.
It is usually used as a alternative for the slang expressions “no homo” or “pause”, that are used to make clear that the speaker didn’t intentionally use a homoerotic digraph.
While Edwards’ quotes went viral on the web, he was actually referencing Dr. MyRon Edmonds’ “chapel message” from an earlier service. The self-proclaimed spiritual strategist’s sermon focused on his problems with conversations that sexualize young people.
“Well, now it’s evolved from ‘pause’ to ‘no, Diddy.’ You all know I was going there today. Look at your neighbor and say, “No, Diddy.” You know what? This is the title of my talk today. Yes it’s true. “The title of my talk today is ‘No Diddy,'” Edmonds told attendees.
Several social media accounts, including: Spiritual worldreposted a video through which Edwards mentioned “no Diddy” during the blessing portion of the Oakwood Live service.
“Unc didn’t even use it in the right context,” one person wrote in the web site’s comments section. An even harsher comment was, “It was corny and couldn’t be directly connected to, sir.”
Someone else joked, “Yes, I will continue to read the Bible in the comfort of my home.”
However, several were concerned in regards to the way Edwards presented his message, using popular culture references. “I miss the times when church was church… now it’s all for money and jokes. Sad times,” one person said.
Another said, “I keep seeing pastors bringing the “world” to the church reasonably than the church to the world.” One final observer said, “I’m so embarrassed.”
Allegations of sexual and physical abuse against Sean “Diddy” Combs became a legal issue after his ex-girlfriend Cassie Ventura filed a lawsuit in New York against Combs under the Adult Survivors Act on November 16, 2023.
Combs and Ventura reached an undisclosed settlement on November 17. In additional lawsuits, various ladies and men accused Diddy of sexual assault, gang rape, false imprisonment, emotional distress and more.
Initially, Diddy denied any wrongdoing. In a social media post on December 6, he claimed that accusers were attempting to assassinate his character, destroy his legacy and get a “quick payout.”
In May 2024, CNN released surveillance footage of Combs physically assaulting Cassie Ventura at a Los Angeles hotel on March 5, 2016. The brutal footage forced the 54-year-old Harlem resident to release apology videobut he didn’t mention Cassie by name.
Diddy’s legal battle turned from a civil case to a criminal case when the Southern District of New York on September 17 charged the “Can’t Someone Hold Me Down” rapper with racketeering, sex trafficking and transportation for the aim of prostitution.
He has pleaded not guilty to all three federal charges and maintains his innocence. The father of six is reportedly being held without bail on the Metropolitan Detention Center in Brooklyn, New York.
“We are disappointed in the decision to continue what we believe to be an unfair prosecution of Mr. Combs by the U.S. Attorney’s Office,” Diddy’s lawyer, Marc Agnifilo, said in an announcement to AND! News.