Las Vegas Aces star A’ja Wilson’s parents helped lay the foundation for her success

Las Vegas Aces forward A’ja Wilson’s trip took her parents, Roscoe and Eva Wilson, from South Carolina to Las Vegas, where they witnessed her win her third WNBA MVP award in five years and break league records.

As the Aces fall to the New York Liberty 1-0 in the WNBA semifinals (Game 2, Tuesday, 7:30 p.m. ET, ESPN2) and fight for a spot in the WNBA Finals with hopes of winning a 3rd straight WNBA title, Eva simply sums up her success daughters with the words: “God’s plan in God’s time.”

That’s a sentiment Eva has been consistently posting on social media in the wake of her daughter’s standout season, during which A’ja set recent WNBA single-season records for total points and rebounds. When Wilson was announced as the league’s first unanimous MVP in nearly twenty years, her mother was wearing the jersey black shirt with the phrase front and center written in daring white font.

For Eva, the phrase encompasses all the life lessons she and Roscoe taught their children.

“Everything that happens to (A’ja), every thing that happens to anyone, will occur only when God’s time comes and it’s in accordance with His plan. We’re just waiting to see what happens next,” Eva told Andscape. “I tell A’ji not to fret about all these other things, because guess what, if it’s for you, it’s for you, I imagine in it. I firmly imagine that that is for you, nobody can take it away from you.

This statement was the results of the motherly advice Eva received when A’ja was going through a difficult time. The life lessons the Wilsons instilled of their daughter laid the foundation for her success in the league.

During her MVP speech this season, Wilson thanked her parents for the sacrifices they made and for holding her accountable. Eva believes that with three league MVP awards, two WNBA championships and two Olympic gold medals, her daughter is reaping the harvest of her faith.

“A’ja believes in it. You have to believe with all your heart that this is your time. You do what you have to do. God will do the rest,” Eva said.

“If A’ja can take care of every thing she’s coping with – all these eyes on her, all the different opinions about her, and they typically come from individuals who don’t even know her – but when she will be able to take care of this stuff and still have the opportunity to attain what he does is nothing. But God, that is quite a bit for someone who’s been doing this probably since she was 15 or 16. She really handled it as best as anyone can.

Born and raised in South Carolina, the Wilsons learned from their parents’ experiences and the personal experiences of African Americans fighting racism. Roscoe Wilson got here of age in the Sixties during the height of the Civil Rights Movement. He remembers the assassination of civil rights leader Martin Luther King Jr., desegregation and attending an integrated highschool.

The Wilsons are graduates of historically black colleges and universities. Eva Wilson attended South Carolina State University in Orangeburg and majored in business administration. Roscoe Wilson followed in the footsteps of many relations and attended Benedict College in Columbia, where he played basketball for the Tigers. It has been introduced Benedict College Hall of Fame as a player in 2011 According to BenedictAs a sophomore, he was eighth in the country in rebounding, averaging 22.5 rebounds. He was chosen to the All-Southern Intercollegiate Athletic Conference thrice. He focused on school and basketball, and attending an HBCU was key.

“It gave me a sense of security and peace of mind that there were other people around you who were going through what I was going through,” Roscoe said. “We could communicate at this level. Also while watching things happening around us that weren’t very nice for African Americans and harmful to our lifestyle

He recalls his father, Roscoe Sr., praying frequently and his mother, Ethel, who was a professor at Benedict, desperate to serve and help others, traits he sees in his own children. Eva Wilson recalls that her mother Hattie Rakes taught her to work hard, not to chop corners, and never to cheat the process. The Wilsons ensured that their kid’s lives reflected discipline, respect and faith in God.

“I don’t think we did anything extraordinary. We are simply parents, raising children based on how we were raised. That’s all we had to do,” Eva said. “We weren’t trying to be friends. I am your mother. And that’s how it is. Your children require respect, and above all, they must respect you as a parent. That’s what A’ja always did. Everything else is just a blessing.”

Present for the joyful occasion of the birth of their daughter, who’s knowledgeable athlete, the Wilsons witnessed the challenges and pressures that Black women face in the highlight – from negative comments on social media to nagging questions on their daughter.

“People only know about themselves what A’ja lets them know about themselves,” Wilson’s mother said. “You do not know her beyond what she lets about herself. You cannot imagine every thing you see on social media and skim about her.

“As you start to climb higher and higher, the more people will come and say what they think they can say about you, even though they don’t even know you.”

In a season where players have been vocal about fan comments, the WNBA issued an announcement Condemning racist, derogatory and threatening comments towards players. An emotional Wilson said during her MVP speech to her teammates, “There are days where I hate being A’ja Wilson.”

“It’s Hard” Wilson told the Las Vegas Review-Journal. “It’s really hard to just navigate a world that doesn’t necessarily want you to succeed, or that has to constantly wonder why you’re succeeding. And it gets exhausting because I’m literally just here to do my job. I’m here to play basketball. I’m here to have fun and bring people together by watching me play. So when passive aggressiveness and the racist conditioning that comes along with it, it’s sometimes hard to deal with.”

For parents, it was overwhelming to see their daughter frequently ridiculed on social media platforms. While they resisted the temptation to clap online, they as an alternative provided encouragement.

“The point is, to whom much is given, much is anticipated, so that you take care of it as best you’ll be able to. It doesn’t necessarily mean you may be prepared to handle all of it,” her father said. “If you wish help, you wish help. I do not think it’s any different from the others.

“We just listen. We’re just sitting there and making sure he has the support and love he needs.”

During the first round of the WNBA playoffs against the Seattle Storm, Wilson’s parents jumped on the court with joy when their daughter made a superb play or jumped in anger after missed calls. They described watching their daughter achieve her life goals as a blessing.

“I’m glad she chose basketball,” her father said with a broad smile. “I’m completely happy since it’s something she found her way into. I told her, ‘Listen, you’ve gotten to commit to being excellent. Don’t cheat the game. She took it literally and went through the roof with it.

There’s an enormous sense of gratitude and pride when someone mentions their daughter’s name as one in all the best players in the league. The Wilsons also feel proud when teammates praise their daughter.

Defensive Aces Kelsey Plum described Wilson as a lightweight who’s MVP on the court and as an individual. Aces guard Sydney Colson publicly thanked Wilson in a post on X, formerly often called Twitter. The Wilsons imagine it was a manifestation of what that they had been in a position to pour into their daughter throughout her life.

“A’ja is a superb soul. I feel she’s been there before,” her father said. “It was all the time obvious that he was a superb person. Being a world-class athlete got here later.

“That is why we never urged A’ji to do anything apart from to have a relationship with God in his own way. She follows the rules she has set for herself. She shows in TV shows, magazines and programs that she is just throughout her. It makes us proud that we did some things right.

While the Wilsons are pleased with their daughter’s record-breaking achievements, they imagine their daughter’s true legacy is what she achieved outside of basketball.

“Basketball is just a vehicle. I believe A’ja was destined to impact the lives of other people, especially young people,” her mother said. “Basketball just gave her a wider and larger platform.

“But I strongly believe that because of her makeup and DNA, she would be able to impact other people’s lives.”