Biracial TikToker exposes her story of growing up with a racist white mom

The 20-year-old TikToker cut herself off from members of her maternal family because of alleged racism, and now she’s urging others not to dam their blessings by keeping toxic people of their lives – even in the event that they’re related to you.

“My mom has two black kids and she’s racist,” TikTok user @allyssareaa begins her now-viral video. “She had many black partners, including my father, and at one point they were even married.”

Allyssa says that as she got older, she began to comprehend how racist her mother was based on the things she said.

“She called my friends and their mom monkeys. She said my dad was blacker than her st. She called my brother’s friend a harsh N-word after which punched him within the face.

Allyssa goes on to clarify how she and her older brother, with whom she shares a father, were treated in a different way than her younger brother, who’s all-white.

According to Alyssa, her mother also suffered from bipolar disorder.

“She was bipolar and would always be really angry,” Allyssa explained. “And when he gets into his little lifestyle, he’ll argue with everyone and just start saying a lot of racist things.”

However, the hatred didn’t stop with her mother. Allyssa and her brother also experienced evil acts from their grandparents.

“My grandparents were even racist and they didn’t mind that I acted that way,” Allyssa adds.

After her viral video, Allyssa posted one other video in response to a comment from a TikTok user asking why her mom was exposed to black men if she was a racist.

“My mom always told me that my dad made her a racist, which of course isn’t true,” Allyssa says. “She continued to date black men after my father.”

However, in the unique video, she emphasizes that this isn’t even half of what her mother has done to her through the years.

“So a lot of people ask, ‘Why did you cut off your family?’ That’s not even the half of it. But know that everything I did was for a reason. Don’t block your blessings by keeping people in your life who shouldn’t be there,” she explained.

In the TikTok post, Allyssa captioned: “Trauma dump”She posted several photos of other things her mother had done to her through the years, which led to her decision to chop off contact.

“Okay my mom treated my white cousin better because she was white,” one caption reads. “Okay my mom told my brother’s girlfriend she was her favorite daughter,” one other caption read.

After Allyssa’s viral video, other social media users began sharing similar stories from their families.

“The Same Sister” User X said. “My white mom is the first person to ever call me a sharp R and tell me how stupid I was. Yeah, I don’t talk to my whole family anymore.”

“It’s pretty much the white side of any biracial person, especially if the mom is white.” one other person replied to X.

“I have biracial cousins; they have the same story to tell,” user X said.

Allyssa is now a mother herself and runs a dessert business. She spoke very truthfully about her ups and downs TikTok page where she has amassed over 100,000 followers.