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‘He just never came home’: Falynn Pina claims ex Simon Guobadia and Porsha Williams were ‘together for a 12 months’ while she was ‘happily married’ to him
Falynn Pina, reality star and ex-wife of Simon Guobadia, claims she all the time believed her ex-husband’s marriage to fellow “Real Housewives of Atlanta” Porsha Williams wasn’t real.
However, the shortage of respect she claims she felt from each parties was very real due to chronology of when she and Guobadia broke up and when he and Williams began dating.
Four months after filing for divorce from his then-wife in January 2021, Simon became engaged to Porsha, and in November 2022, they officially tied the knot.
In an interview on “The Baller Alert Show,” Falynn said she felt “vindicated” by the breakdown of Porsha and Simon’s marriage – adding that she never thought the 2 were ever truly in love.
The now 34-year-old mother of 4 said she believed their relationship “was just a ruse” to get back at her.
“I won’t say there weren’t any parts, you know, that he thought might have been real or something might have grown,” Falynn admitted, adding, “I don’t know about that.”
He believes that their “initial… going public and doing everything the way they approached everything… was definitely a ruse.”
“They were probably together for a year while I was happily married to (Simon),” she said, adding that Porsha’s baby daddy, Dennis, actually told her.
Like many individuals in society, Falynn said she watched from the sidelines as Simon and Porsha battled it out on social media with cryptic posts and captions. Watching this development strengthened her resolve that she would never come to terms with it.
Falynn joined the Bravo series for season 13, where she met Porsha and invited her and several other solid members to the home she shared with Simon on the time. She said she married Simon when she was 26 and he was over 50, noting that every one of his current behavior actually resembles the previous playboy ways he had during their two-year marriage.
“It’s a trauma for me because I was the first one to go through it,” she said.
Falynn, who’s currently working on a dating reality show, says she sees Simon often outside the home but they never talk to one another. She admitted that she “contacted” him via email before his divorce from Porsha became public, but in vain.
“You have to understand, Simon and I were actually married. It was real,” she said. “Our marriage was very real.”
However, according to her, they “never had an ending discussion” where they might punctuate the top of their relationship.
“We never said goodbye. We never said I wished you all the best,” she said, adding that there was no real ending. “It just went away. One day I was happy and the next day he was gone,” she further explained. “He just never came home.”
Falynn said that when he returned home a few months later, she told him he had to leave their family home and that they only had three weeks to achieve this.
“He texted me,” she said of the separation. Heartbroken and desolate, she said her ex-partner finally offered her more time to stay at home, but she had to leave because her joy was gone.
This is similar house that Porsha moved into along with her daughter Pilar and Simon’s children. Many fans in comment they didn’t fall for what they thought was a sob story about Falynn’s ex-fiancé and father of her youngest child, Jaylan Banks.
“She leaves out the moment she had a baby with the same man Simon accused her of cheating on with a girl like that,” reads a comment, while one other says: “It wasn’t her trying to act like herself that wasn’t more real, but by the best way, the guy got pregnant. Women who destroy women will never be okay with me. Hunnie, you probably did some shit, he made some shit move.
Did Falynn cheat?
Falynn and Banks have one child, who Guobadia said was conceived during their marriage. However, one commenter thought there was more to her tough talk.
“I miss him,” this person said. “And I realized the grass isn’t greener out there.”
Falynn and Jaylan dated after her ex-husband broke up along with her. Simon believes they dated after they were married and once called her his “cheating wife”.
Falynn and Jaylan broke off their engagement in February 2023. The mom of 4 also discussed how despite being friends with Porsha during filming, if she met her in person today after a significant betrayal, it would not end well.
“It wouldn’t be a safe scenario,” the previous “RHOA” star said. “I know what she did. Simon knows what she did. Porsha knows what she did. …I wouldn’t even put myself in a difficult situation.” On what they might speak about, she exclaimed, “There won’t be anything to talk about.”
Falynn says if he bumped into Porsha, “It wouldn’t be a safe scenario, there wouldn’t be anything to talk about” #RHOA
(@balleralert) pic.twitter.com/lJeqoXatJB— Bravo Shaderoom (@bravoshaderooom) April 12, 2024
Fans heard this statement and he replied“What’s crazy is that you just want to fight Porsha, but not Simon, he’s crazy! Everyone knows when you find yourself cheating it is best to upgrade and not mess with the person you might be caring for! Mhm.
So What exactly did Porsha do?
Falynn was recently seen with Porsha’s ex-fiance and father of her child, Dennis McKinley, and can be promoting his alcohol brand. However, she assured that they were just friends. She claims that Dennis told her that his daughter’s mother told him that Falynn knew about her date with Simon.
Falynn says that wasn’t the case.
Interestingly, she says Simon and Porsha were sneaking around even when she was introduced within the solid with the veteran Bravolebrity.
“They called me ‘Housewives’ a few times. Before I said yes, they asked me who you wanted to be introduced to on the show and I said Porsha,” she recalled, sharing that the first time they shot a pool scene together was during which she told her that she and Simon were going to to “upgrade the ring,” and Porsha grimaced and said, “Oh, really.”
Others within the Bravo world thought Porsha was disgusting because she seemed to be Falynn’s friend and then sneaked out along with her husband.
Even “The Real Housewives of Potomac” star Candiace Dillard Bassett, 36, actually confronted Porsha during season three of “The Real Housewives Ultimate Girls Trip: Thailand.”
Candiace snapped, “We became friends, and two minutes later you and her husband were dating. You stole someone’s man.
I’m excited to see this scene. Candiace could be very direct in her approach, nevertheless it doesn’t seem overly confrontational. The Porsha/Simon issue needs to be addressed. I believe the best way Candiace is doing it’s going to make Porsha really speak about it. pic.twitter.com/hQjOyzfhvZ
—The Third King
(@trzeciking0208) February 24, 2023
Now it looks like Porsha lost Simon the identical way she gained him. In February 2024, the Dish Nation host filed for divorce after 15 months.
In his divorce filing, Porsha detailed instances of fraud, his alleged illegal citizenship status, and discrepancies in Simon’s reported financial status. He was then photographed on holiday, apparently with one other woman.
These changes were recent to Porsha, but Falynn says he knew about it from the start. Basically, based on her testimony, each side switched roles.
The saving grace in all this drama could also be that Porsha can have an exciting storyline for season 16 of “RHOA,” which is able to return soon, and Falynn (though she hasn’t confirmed it) could show up and blow the entire show up. Either way, drama makes for good TV.
‘He just never came home’: Falynn Pina claims ex Simon Guobadia and Porsha Williams were ‘together for a 12 months’ while she was ‘happily married’ to him